Sometimes, I'm reminded that men and women live in two different worlds -- the men sigh for the old day where they made women safe by keeping them protected from doing things like taking a six weeks tour of Europe as a single 24 year old woman who'd just finished college. My niece did what would have been unthinkable to many people when my mother was that age, though even then, women took those trips alone. She was in Italy, Germany, Switzerland, the Netherlands, and Spain, staying in hostels mostly, and even couch surfing at a commune in Switzerland in the middle of the yurt owner's girl friend problems. In Amsterdam, she and a gay guy she met at her hostel went walking in the red light district.
There are still men who'd be afraid for her because now is so much less kind than the past days when women were protected so much more. She didn't even carry a dog, much less a gun, and she walked ten miles alone in Rome.
I trust what women say to to what men say about relative safety of places. Women tend to be more sensitive to how people see throwing your money in their faces as a slight, even if they don't steal from you. (Generalization -- my father is very sensitive to this and one sister is oblivious to the point of rudeness).
Men seem more ready for the conflict that having more might bring on -- more thinking about security in depth, more electrical fences, guns, dogs. Asking if people needed the stuff is a whole different way of looking at the issues.
My friend who'd lived in Honduras said also that expat men tended to have more serious issues than expat women, to go for the young girls. Nicaragua has a minimum age of consent that seems to be honored in the breach. Marriage to a ex-pat with money may be a deal for a young girl in those cultures given everything else, but I'm not convinced that ex-pat men on average are significantly less likely to be abusive of women than Spanish-speaking men. The abuse rates I've seen quoted for the US are something like one in four over a lifetime, twenty-eight percent over the time of a relationship (different surveys); Nicaragua's are one in two (sample in Leon), but the the ex-pat men are more likely to be looking for women who are more compliant and submissive than women in their home countries. Other studies show ranges closer to US ranges:
The official Demographic and Health Survey (ENDESA) for 1998 indicates that 29% of all women in Nicaragua who have cohabited with a partner have suffered some kind of physical or sexual abuse.
The increased safety for the Nicaraguan women becoming involved with or marrying ex-pats is possibly there, but not as extreme an improvement as the ex-pat men who marry young Nicaraguan women claim. Unions where women had little say in household matters are more likely to be abusive. What protects a woman is her natal family's attitude toward domestic abuse -- if they're against it and indicate that they'll back her and protect her, the rate of violence goes down. The age discrepancy is positive for violence; the presence of the girl's family in the area is protective.
I'm getting most of this from
Domestic Violence in Nicaragua: The Roles of Individuals, Families and Communities in the Cessation of Abuse.Kiersten Johnson. A quote from the summary:
Men's demographic characteristics don't matter, and neither do things like having a family history of violence or living in an urban or rural area. Instead, the characteristics of the women are what matter most, and the degree to which the women are immediately empowered: if they have a white-collar job, if they have family support, if their husband is generally sober, if they participate in important household decisionmaking, if the father of their children is a legal husband, if the household in which they live with their children is not poor – these are the characteristics of women who have a degree of social and economic autonomy and are thus empowered to negotiate an end to domestic violence in their homes once it has begun.
Another paper said that the difference between Nicaragua and Russia, both with high abuse rates, is that Nicaragua has an active women's movement and the government sees the issue as something that needs attention.
Della Giustina, Jo-Ann. "Domestic Violence Policy and Independent Women’s Movements: A Comparison of Nicaragua and Russia" Paper presented at the annual meeting of the AMERICAN SOCIETY OF CRIMINOLOGY, Atlanta Marriott Marquis, Atlanta, Georgia, Nov 14, 2007 . 2010-06-07 <http://www.allacademic.com/meta/p188045_index.html>
Any marriages of women under 18 are in breach of Nicaraguan law. One can argue that this is too high for the prevailing culture and that women in most world cultures marry shortly after puberty.
Are the women who marry European or American expats who came to CA to marry young girls significantly safer than they'd be married to Nicaraguan men? I suspect that the incidence of abuse among those men isn't zero and that any significant safety would depend on the girl's family.